IF HE LIKES YOU HE WILL: (I'm using a guy in my examples.)
look at you and when you catch him, he tends to look away.
Text/call you on his own if you did it first.
Make up excuses to talk to you.
Find ways to be around you.
Pretend to like someone else.
Become your friend.
Be playful with you.
Try to make you laugh/feel better.
P.S. If you don't know if a guy likes you tell them in someway,
and you will be able to assume if they do, by the way that they
Here are some things to look for to know when a girl or a guy
Keep an eye on how many times you catch her/him staring at
Take notice of whether s/he smiles at you a lot.
Look for whether s/he focuses on you in a crowd.
Walk to her/him and talk to her/him. See if s/he wants to go
out with you.
Pay attention to any significant changes in her/his behavior
toward you recently.
Start showing her/him a bit more interest and see how they
Have a friend talk to her/him or one of her/his friends about
Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?'
Look for signs of teasing.
Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if
you're having difficulty reading her/him, these steps are your last
resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a
few mistakes to perfect your technique.
Here are more explanations from Wiki s
The easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an
innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested
then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set
closer boundaries for you and will therefore not mind your
I'm a girl and when I like a guy I try to seem "uninterested"
or "unavailable" just so they think they can't have me and want me
more. Before me and my boyfriend were going out, he tried to be
near me all the time; tried to find a way to touch my shoulders,
arms, hands, feet, etc.; always tried to put his arm around me.
When I said that I was cold or tired, he always put his arm around
me and said things like, "Do you want me to warm you up?" and, "Lay
your head on my shoulder." Overall it is really easy to tell if a
guy likes you or not.
One of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases
you or makes fun/jokes.
He seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up
with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call
you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at
least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be
closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the
room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want
your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around
you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from
stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not
be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a
little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all
but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more
Boys might not tell you directly, but they may tell someone. Or
perhaps when you are not around but your friend is there he will
ask for you.
I'm a girl and I like two guys that are both my friends, and I
think they like me because: 1 of them told me a secret that he only
told me n my other friend, one that could really affect his like
(we r not BFFs we r just good friends so this means a lot 4 me) so
if he talks to you a lot that is a good sign. the other one: when
we were partnering up, i didn't have a partner and he was staring
at me the whole time, till he had the guts to walk over to me and
ask me to be his partner, and then the whole block we sat there
talking and goofing off. We were sharing deep stuff. and we always
look at each other during class if someone does something funny or
we remember an inside joke. AND he is always staring at me. AND in
the mornings he always walks over 2 me and says hi n we talk a
little. So I think any of those are good signs.
You will know if a guy likes you because he will not hesitate
to make eye-contact; he will either stare if he thinks you won't
notice or hold your gaze when you catch him in the act (if he has a
lot of confidence). If a guy is interested, he will also go out of
his way to be as near you as possible without being obvious. Of
course, the rules don't apply to all men, but generally, if he
likes you, you WILL know it, without a doubt.
I'm a guy and usually when it comes to asking girls out i only
ask them out if I'm like 95% sure they like me. And girls if a guy
asked you out answer it for yourself don't discuss it with your
friends. Also if you now a guy has a phone ask him for his number
most guys would probably say yes unless a they don't like you, or
if they just walk a way without an answer that is usually a sign
that they like you. If you do get there number text them like every
other day ONLY if they respond. When texting someone if they don't
respond it usually means they're no interested. TAKE THE HINT. Also
if a guy likes you he will usually look at you a lot as long as you
don't sit right next to them. If you notice a guy looking at you a
lot and then looking a way when you look at them that is a sure
sign that they like you.
I'm a guy and I think it depends, and different guys are
different. Eye contact and attention isn't always the best way to
tell. If a guy is shy he may get intimidated by girls he likes and
actually make less eye contact.
I'm a guy, and I find it real hard to let a girl know I like
her. I try to be funny, I smile (because I can't help it), I try to
be close to her, but I can't verbally let her, or anyone know. Many
guys have the same problem.
I'm a guy. If a guy is into you, he will ask you out, or he'll
most definitely go out with you when you ask him first. There are
no exceptions to that rule, unless he was with someone else at the
time and wants to be true to them. So unfortunately, if a guy does
not go out with you when you ask him out, he does not like
Here are some of the signs: he acts distracted when he's around
you and fumbles for things. From the corner of your eye you think
he is looking at you but when you look up he turns away abruptly
and you think you are imagining things. He tries to like all the
things you do. Your instinct tells you that he feels for you but
your rational part says you are sure to be wrong.
I think you can tell if a guy likes you if he always looks at
you, he always wants to see you smile, he doesn't like it when
other guys talk to you, he looks at you when you are doing
something, he follows you places, he doesn't know how to act when
he is with you.
A guy is interested in a girl if he says "yes" to things she
asks him to do. Time is very valuable to a guy, and if he is
obliging and generous with his time, a girl certainly has his
attention. Especially if he's a busy guy, he'll make time for a
girl if he likes you.
He will make you feel special. He will be romantic. He will not
move too fast. He will consider your feelings and take things
He will show off, sometimes on small things. (For example, my
crush at the moment was drinking in front of me, but then stopped
when I said it was uncool).
I knew a guy who would try to embarrass his friends when they
were around me. He wanted to look funny and seem cooler than his
Sometimes a guy who likes you can behave in a very confusing
way and be hard to understand. It might make you wonder whether
they like you or hate you.
Shy guys like me will most likely tell their friends. Some will
be confused if you flirt with them because they have never had this
happen before, so they don't know what to do. Most guys don't do
things unless they know exactly what they are doing. Girls just
A guy likes you if he: 1. Makes fun of you. 2. Has cute little
nicknames for you. 3. Remembers everything you say, in the smallest
most insignificant conversations. 4. Finds any excuse to touch you
or sit next to you. 5. Talks and looks at you differently than
other people. 6. Talks about you with your friends.
A confident guy is easier to read. He'll make eye contact. Shy
guys can be very hard to read but there are some sure signs: They
might be looking at you but if you look back then they'll quickly
look away. He will always laugh at funny things you do. Don't get
discouraged if he talks more to other girls. Shy guys are very
attracted to outgoing girls, so don't be afraid to be outgoing!
Here's what you can do: when you're in a group of people and he's
there, ask to the group if anyone would like to go on a walk, or go
do something with you. Be sure that it would be a two person
activity. If the guy you like agrees, then this is good. You can
guarantee you'll have a good conversation with him if you ask a lot
of questions. Be sure to tell him if you have something in
Confident men who aren't afraid to stare at you and ask you out
may just want you for the sex.
Sometimes a guy will pretend to flirt with other girls in your
presence, to make you jealous.
I tend to like shy guys, so it may be hard to read them at
first. But, once they open up, they give you their confidence
completely. I find that they will: 1. Make eye contact with you,
then look away when your eyes meet. 2. Always be willing to help
you our or do you favors (like rides home, or physical work). 3.
Will always look for you in a crowd, then when he finds you will
act like he doesn't see you. 4. Will laugh at all your jokes/will
try to make you laugh. 5. Talks to his friends about you. 6.
Mentions activities that you are interested in so there is a chance
for you two to do them together. 7. Will always find a reason to
talk to you or touch you in any way. 8. Pokes fun at you, but in a
nice way (unless he is very young and immature). 9. Seems genuinely
interested in what you have to say. 10. Remembers little things
that you've talked about before a long time ago, and brings them up
in conversations to let you know that he remembered. 11. He will
always stare at you, and your friends may notice it too. 12. When
you are talking with him and your friends, he will only comment on
something that you say, or will look at you whenever he speaks. I
hope that these help, but remember, you can't always rely on
physical things. I think that most of all it is a feeling. If he
likes you, your instinct tells you. Go with your gut. Don't let
your logic tell you any different.
I highly recommend the new book: "He's just not that into you."
It is so right on about how to tell if a guy likes you! Actually,
the first rule of thumb is that a guy will ask you out if he likes
you. To get him comfortable enough to do that, all you have to do
is smile and seem interested in him as a person (just in case he's
the shy type).
A guy who likes you may tend to notice new things about you,
and compliment you.
The truth is, most girls can tell if a guy likes them. If you
get the feeling that he likes you, you're probably right.
Okay, I'm a girl and i think its pretty much the same, I always
think about what "signs" hell be giving me and ill realize i gave
him the same ones, like staring, and then turning away, or
blushing, or teasing but then making sure you know there kidding,
they like to see you smile and will do whatever they can do just to
touch you, but not in an obvious way, like "accidentally" touch
your knee or arm, not too obvious though. Guys are cute that way,
and I'll always find I'm even more attracted to them when they like
you, but only by the minor signs. It feels good to know someones
watching you so if a guy or girl sees something they like
compliment them, it feels good! anyway that is about it, you should
know, yes guys have the hardest jobs and I sympathize with them but
just go for it, truth is if you think they do, most likely they do,
and try not to give these signs when you don't like them, then your
leading them on, that is not cool!
I'm a guy, and I think that in most ways, we couldn't be
clearer when we like someone, girls, on the other hand, are more
complicated than debugging Windows Vista !!! If there's a girl a
like, then I tend to be more hesitant, self-conscious and shy
around her, but OK round all the other girls. I won't look at them
as often as I look anywhere else. In the end, it's probably just as
effective as doing the opposite.
I disagree with the above, even though its like a well known
fact for guys that girls are complicated and hard to read. But the
truth is guys just can't catch a hint so no matter how much we do
make signs it like barely gets through! So don't blame us for not
being able to catch the MILLIONS of signs we send out!
Usually a girl will tell her best friend then her bff will try
to be nice and tell the guy then he will know. However, it depends
on the girl. I am a girl and personally, I'd never tell my bff
because I'll be teased mercilessly about the guy lol.
I'm a girl and if I liked a guy, I would 1) tease and "play"
with him 2) I would try to sit closer to him or move near him in
some way 3) I would try to get his attention, example walk around
in front of him a lot, smile and try to catch his eye every time I
saw him 4) I would talk to him and try to know him better
5)flirting is part of #4.
If he constantly reminds you about his plans, such as "I'm
going to the mall this weekend," he is hinting that you should go
with him, or at least hoping that you will change your plans and go
there the same date and time, with him or not.
I knew a guy that liked me, and when I was around him, he would
try and trip his friend and tease him so I would laugh. If a guy
struggles to make you laugh, he likes you.
Well, recently, a good friend of mine (I like her) broke up
with her boyfriend, and I kinda helped her calm down a bit. Well,
recently, she started teasing me, and calling me "heyy, Mr.
Handsome", or similar things. I'm taking this as a good sign, and
I'm kinda going out with her today. Not a big date, just a lunch
and a movie. Also, you'll know a girl likes you if she constantly
looks at you, like I do when I try to find her in the crowd.
I have a locker next to the guy I like and he is always teasing
me and making jokes and standing really close to my body like we
are slow dancing or something. He is always smile and staring at me
and he does look me in the eyes when we have conversations. So I'm
pretty sure he likes me.
For really bold guys
The guy I like, I'm pretty sure he likes me. He seems to try
and find excuses to touch me like high-fiving, or taking a box I'm
carrying for me. Bold guys will try to catch your eye often, and
hold the gaze. The totally non-shy guys try and make it more
obvious. He may flirt with other girls around you and look at you
to see if you get jealous. The guy I like is like totally the
opposite of shy (so am I, we're perfect for each other lol), so I
thought I'd put this in for the other peeps who like a bold dude.
and a lot of this stuff applies to us gals too.
Kiss them on the mouth and if they get mad they don't like
Ok there was this guy in year 7 who used 2 like me, but I
rejected him so he doesn't like me anymore, but he used 2... 1)poke
me with his pen in maths and elbow me a lot 2)annoy me all other
times 3)one time he ran up to me and opened my bag and one of my
best friends asked him if he fancied me and he went bright red and
went off. he was nice 2 me 4 the rest of the day - in English (last
lesson) he was giving out books and he got to mine, smiled at me
and put it at the bottom of the pile. In parents evening that day
he was behind a desk and when I got there he was really pleased 2 c
me. He ignored everyone else and gave me a massive grin, but I
looked straight past him, so he has been ignoring me since. I hated
him and I still do. Now there's this guy who I love, and I think
it's mutual, we catch the same bus, so we're together every morning
and afternoon, we go to the same clubs (orchestra, wind orchestra
and yr 8 band), we play 3 instruments the same at the same level
(keyboard, piano and guitar) and I play the clarinet and he plays
the flute. the signs he gives me that we feel the same are: 1) he
stares at me a lot ;2) he's always creeping up on me; 3) forever
giving me high fives; 4) talks to me a lot; 5) tells me his
secrets; 6) makes me laugh; 7) smiles at me.
There is a great post on ezinearticles that talks about this
subject (see related link).
He will show signs: he will smile at you every time he sees you
and do a cute nod; he will sit with you or ask you to sit with him;
he will be nice to you all the time; he will finally ask you
He might always be staring at you, running his hand through his
hair, or avoiding your eyes when you look at him. He might also be
whispering around you (nicely) and teasing you (nicely). He will
laugh at your jokes, even if they aren't funny. Good luck with
love! Give it a shot!
There are some guys, however, that may like you, but will do
none of the things above. For example, there is a guy that I
know likes me (and how I know that is a long story, so I
won't explain), and yet he purposefully doesn't do anything above
so that I wouldn't know. He hardly ever makes eye contact, he
doesn't try to talk to me much, he never laughs at my jokes, etc.
And every time I touch him, he flips out. Yet he does like
me as more than a friend. So don't think that if a guy seems to
sort of shun you, in a way, it might not be that he's
repulsed by you. He may like you.
Sometimes guys can be really weird over whether they like you
or not. Sometimes even if they know you like them IN THAT WAY
because everyone knows they still don't do anything. Watch out,
because sometimes if a guy is hanging around you and wants to be in
a group with you for projects and stuff it's just because you're
smart or he wants to look good.
this is easy. for a guy if they show off, smile at you, ask you
personal questions, or ask you who you like they will probably like
you. for a girl if they smile at you, hang out with you, or try to
sit by you they probably like you. They flirt with you very much
and they do not show it until you show it
If he is a SHY guy he will:
1. he would be really nervous when he is around you.
2. he will not make eye contact with you.
3. he will look at you and when you catch him he will look
4. he will try to avoid you. and that's usually it for shy
If he is a BOLD guy he will:
1. he will annoy you a lot.
2. he will say he likes another girl just to make you
3. he will flirt with you.
4. he will get mad if you talk to another guy.
5. when you talk to him, he will smile.
6. he will try his best to make you laugh.
7. he will touch your hand or hug you for no reason.
8. he will hang out around you very often. and that's usually
for bold guys.